Live dangerously or you won’t really live

Life is scary. People do things that hurt you. You talk to someone and share precious feelings and get a response that makes you feel like they totally don’t get you, they don’t understand where you’re coming from, or they don’t value your feelings, and you think: why did I bother… The temptation, after this [...]

The No Entry sign is gone – halleluiah!

In the beginning of Leviticus 16, God makes it clear to Aaron that he is not free to enter “the holy place inside the veil” whenever he likes, “or he will die”. God gives instructions as to how Aaron should enter – bringing the appropriate animal offerings, wearing the appropriate “holy garments”, and having washed [...]

Hearing doesn’t mean understanding

but sometimes that’s all you can do. A friend, or a stranger, or… it doesn’t matter who. A fellow human being who needs to share something of what they’re going through, something of their struggles, their pain – they can’t always articulate it. Pain doesn’t always fit neatly into coherent sentences. I’ve been told I’m [...]

Why would such a nice idea stress me out?

I was at an interview last week and one of the questions I was asked was: what sort of things stress you out? The next day I got a good example of that by email. I’ve been accepted to go on this course, the first session is a whole day on a Saturday (I already [...]